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COMMUNITIES OF ALL SIZES and shapes, parents face multiple
challenges that may inhibit
their ability to effectively raise and support their
children. For example, the U.S. adolescent birth rate
(43 for every 1,000 females aged 15-19 in 2002 (Martin
et al.*)
), results in teens who are often unprepared to take
on the tasks of parenthood. The increasing incidence
of parental substance abuse, child abuse and neglect
(often related to substance abuse), parental AIDS, incarceration,
divorce, and desertion have resulted in substantially
higher rates of children being raised by grandparents.
Nearly one in five American children lives in poverty and many more lack
a decent standard of living because their families hover near the poverty line
or move in and out of official poverty (Shore, pg. 2*).
About 805,000
children were in foster care in 2001 (Vandivere, Chalk & Moore*).
In 2001, substantiated reports of child abuse and neglect
submitted to child protection agencies involved more
than 903,000 children (U. S. Department of
Health and Human Services*). Children in homes in which domestic abuse
occurs are physically abused and neglected at a rate
15 times the national average (Osofsky*) and are 12-14 times more
likely to be sexually abused (McClosky, Figuerdo & Koss*).
The role of parenting education and support
To meet their responsibilities, all parents need support from individuals,
family-friendly institutions, and caring communities. The goal of parent support
is to strengthen
parents' capability to draw upon available resources for their own and their
children's well-being.
As one aspect of parent support, parent education should reinforce parental
practices which promote development and provide alternatives to practices which
are harmful
or nonproductive. Parent education and support programming assumes that parents
are more likely to provide appropriate nurturance and guidance as they acquire
a greater understanding of child development and children's needs.
"Children grow and thrive in the context of close and dependable relationships
that provide love and nurturance, security, responsive interaction, and encouragement
for exploration. Without at least one such relationship, development is disrupted
and the consequences can be severe and long-lasting. If provided or restored,
however, a sensitive caregiving relationship can foster remarkable recovery" (National
Research Council and Institute of Medicine, pg. 389*).
Categories of parenting
programs
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Programs designed to
improve parenting in general, typically used by parents
whose children are functioning normally but who want
additional knowledge. |
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Programs focused on specific parenting
issues, such as substance-abuse prevention, appropriate
discipline, and antisocial behavior. |
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Programs aimed at specific populations
of parents, such as parents with children at critical
periods of development, single parents, parents with
low incomes. |
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Programs targeted to specific populations
of children, such as children with disabilities. |
Principles
of successful parenting programs (Riley*)
Content and strategies of effective programs are based on
an understanding of the relationship between parental behaviors
and age-appropriate infant, child, and youth outcomes.
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They are targeted to
specific ages of children and outcomes and have clear
goals. |
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They are focused on critical periods
to prevent problems. They are provided at transition
points, such as the first year of life, divorce, step
family formation, and puberty. |
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They build on parents existing
strengths. They do not focus on parents failures. |
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They are long-term. |
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They develop collaborations to provide
services that support parents. |
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Parents are involved in choosing
program design and content. |
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Staff members have excellent interpersonal
and facilitative skills, are very sensitive to individuals needs,
and have good emotional health. |
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Program plans recognize the community
context of parenting e.g., try to change neighborhood
patterns to include more monitoring and support or
address education and employment issues. |
At
a minimum, parenting programs address (Riley*)
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Stages of child development.
Good parenting practices differ across several developmental
stages of childhood and adolescence. |
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Cultural differences and their effects. |
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Needs related to the family structure,
such as helping divorcing parents meet the challenges
of co-parenting. |
Factors that limit the
effectiveness of parent education
Program staff should keep the following in mind when working with parents:
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Parenting beliefs. They
are deeply placed, often unconscious, and not easily
changed. Under stress, parents may rely on familiar
ways of parenting even when they have learned
new parenting skills and want to change their parenting
behavior (Thomas*). |
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Insufficient program intensity. Relatively
small gains for both parents and children have been
found in some programs in which program delivery is
not intensive enough to bring about the desired change
within the allotted time (Ramey & Ramey*). |
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Parents developmental
needs. A parent who has a poor developmental
history, psychological difficulties, and/or a drug
or alcohol addiction may not be emotionally
available to learn skills that build better
parent-child relationships. Parents own developmental
needs may be so great that they are not able to participate
in programs that focus on their children. |
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Personal factors. Cultural
values, negative experiences with social service providers,
language barriers, time commitment, scheduling issues,
travel, and general lack of interest may reduce participation
in parent education programs (Spoth & Redmond,
1993*, 1995*). |
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Family stressors. Parental
depression, drug addiction, alcoholism, low literacy,
limited education, domestic violence, marital conflict,
blending of families after divorce, and excessive punishment
of children may reduce the effectiveness of parent
education programs
(Tolan & McKay*). |
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Parental perceptions.
Parents with less education and lower incomes are less
likely to believe that they have control over their
infants and childrens development than
other parents (Luster & Kain*). Parents in
rural areas often perceive that their children are
at less risk for problems than other children (Spoth &
Redmond 1993*). |
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Environmental conditions. Parents
who are stressed by environmental conditions (e.g.,
neighborhoods with recurrent violence, few adult role
models, persistent unemployment) may be less able to
benefit from parent education programs. Programs
must first recognize and address these obstacles (Tolan &
McKay*). |
PARENTING EDUCATION RESOURCES:
PUBLICATION FINDER
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How Culture Shapes Social-Emotional
Development: Implications for Practice in Infant-Family
Programs
Monimalika Day and Rebecca Parlakian
A monogram providing four tools to promote understanding of how cultural influences
within agencies and care giving settings as well as in diverse ethnic, racial,
religious and social groups can adversely affect supervisor-staff, staff-parent,
and staff-child relationships. Although parent-staff scenarios address social-emotional
development issues in early childhood, the techniques can be applied by staff
in any family support program to enhance cultural continuity. Washington, D.C.:
Zero to Three, 2004. |
PARENTING EDUCATION
RESOURCES:
WEB SITE FINDER
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Child Trends
Child Trends is a non-profit,
non-partisan research organization which analyzes and
reports data on the
well-being of children. Many publications are available
online or in print. The Parenting
or Family Component of the Guide to Effective Programs for Children and
Youth has links to information
about 23 programs. |
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Zero To Three
Zero to Three is a multidisciplinary organization focused
on early child development. Easy access to research-based
information on a wide range of topics is available
through the Parent A-Z and Professional A-Z listings. |
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CLIKS: County-City-Community
Level Information on Kids
Annie E. Casey Foundation.
This
site provides data on indicators of well-being of children
in most states and counties and in some communities.
Information can be requested in the format
of profiles, line graphs, maps, rankings or raw data. |
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National Clearinghouse on Child Abuse and Neglect
Information
This
web site provides access to the full report, Emerging
Practices in Prevention
of Child Abuse and Neglect, or to selected highlights. Highlighted topics
include statistics, kinds of prevention programs, findings about program effectiveness,
and risk and protective factors for child abuse and neglect. |
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University
of Delaware Extension Service
Recommended Practices Parent Education and Support
This site contains background information and a summary of effective parent education
strategies. |
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